Held in Presence

A Lomi Lomi Ritual for Grief, Change and Emotional Renewal

There are times when an ordinary massage does not feel like enough.

Grief, loss, difficult relationships, major life changes and painful experiences can leave us feeling disconnected from our bodies, unable to rest or uncertain whether it is safe to receive care. Held in Presence is a longer, gently paced Lomi Lomi ritual created for these tender periods of life.

This is not psychotherapy and it does not promise to remove trauma. It is a supportive, body-centred experience offering time, respectful touch and a calm space in which you can slow down, listen to yourself and reconnect with your body at your own pace.

The session begins with tea and an unhurried conversation about what you need in order to feel comfortable. Together, we agree clear boundaries, areas of touch and anything you would prefer to avoid. You remain in control throughout the experience and may pause, change or stop the treatment at any time.

You do not need to tell your whole story. You do not need to produce an emotional release, and there is no particular way you are expected to respond. Tears may come, or they may not. You may experience deep rest, warmth, relief, stillness or simply a little more space inside yourself. Every response is welcome.

Through the flowing rhythm of Lomi Lomi, grounding, breath, tea and quiet integration, the ritual offers an opportunity to experience touch without pressure and care without expectation.

This ritual may be supportive during:

• grief and bereavement;
• separation or the ending of a relationship;
• emotionally demanding life transitions;
• periods of exhaustion or disconnection;
• rebuilding trust in your body and your own boundaries;
• times when you need to feel safely held, heard and cared for.

A female therapist is available for women upon request. We will always discuss which therapist and type of support feel most comfortable for you.

A Single Ritual

A spacious 2.5–3 hour experience including an initial conversation, tea, grounding, a personalised Lomi Lomi massage, rest and gentle integration afterwards.

The Three-Session Journey

For those who would like more continuity, Held in Presence can also be experienced as a journey of three individually tailored sessions over six to eight weeks.

Repeated sessions can allow safety, familiarity and trust to develop gradually. Each meeting responds to where you are at that moment; there is no pressure to reach a particular outcome or move faster than feels right.

Held in Presence may be used alongside counselling or other professional support, but it is not a replacement for medical care, psychotherapy or specialist trauma treatment.

Sometimes healing does not begin by doing more. Sometimes it begins with being given enough time, safety and loving attention to soften—just a little.

Booking & Practical Information

Ready to book, or have a question?

Booking is simple — just get in touch. You don’t need to know exactly which treatment is right for you; tell me what you’re looking for and we can decide together.

For female clients, a female therapist is available upon request, helping you feel fully comfortable and at ease.

WhatsApp or text is usually the quickest way to reach me.

You can view our price list here before booking.
Payment is made in person after the massage, or you can do banktransfer if you prefer to pay in advance. Cash and Card payment are also possible after the session.

I’m happy to answer any questions you may have and help you find a suitable time.